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THE BLONDE MESS
Kelleen Miller
A stay at home mama, to a precious toe headed heart-warrior
and a charming blondie who encompasses all that it is, to be a second child.
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Consideration During Conflict: Choosing Love When It Would Be Easier Not To
Conflict isn’t what damages a marriage — how you handle it does. When emotions run high, it’s easy to defend, interrupt, or try to win. But consideration asks us to pause. To listen without fixing. To choose connection over control. After 13 years together, we’ve learned that love isn’t proven when things are easy… it’s proven in how you show up when they’re hard.
Jan 73 min read
Consideration: The Quiet Choice That Changes Our Marriage
What does consideration in marriage really mean? A candid look at empathy, boundaries, and daily choices that strengthen connection and lasting love.
Jan 23 min read
The Unforgiven: Why Time Alone Cannot Heal the Wounds of Betrayal
Betrayal doesn’t disappear with time. Healing requires acknowledgment, accountability, and sometimes learning to move forward without an apology.
Dec 23, 20253 min read
Protecting My Peace, Protecting My Child
Motherhood taught me that protecting my peace isn’t selfish—it’s essential. A calm, grounded mom is better able to show up for her child, model self-care, and create a nurturing environment. Setting boundaries, pausing to reset, and prioritizing mental and emotional well-being aren’t luxuries—they’re acts of love. Protecting my peace is one of the most powerful ways I protect my child.
Sep 21, 20252 min read
How Dare You Prioritize the Feelings of Strangers?!
How often do we sacrifice our own peace and boundaries to protect the feelings of strangers? In this empowering post, Blonde Tipsy Mama challenges you to stop shrinking for others and start prioritizing your own truth and well-being. Learn how to set clear boundaries, speak your mind, and embrace your worth without apology.
Aug 12, 20252 min read
Back-to-School, Not Back to Perfect
“The Bridge Between Summer Freedom and School Structure”
Embrace the mess of transitioning from late nights and lake days to early alarms and routines.
Aug 11, 20252 min read
Letting People Stay Wrong About You: A Sacred Skill We All Need to Master
etting people be wrong about you—and stay wrong—isn’t weakness, it’s wisdom. You’re no longer in the business of performing for approval or explaining your worth. That era is over. This is your freedom era. The one where peace matters more than proving a point, and authenticity matters more than acceptance. Let them misunderstand you. You’ve got nothing to prove and everything to protect.
Jul 29, 20252 min read
The Rot of Resentment
Resentment doesn’t shout—it festers. In this raw and honest post, Blonde Tipsy Mama explores how resentment grows silently, why it hurts so deeply, and what it takes to heal. A must-read for any woman carrying silent weight.
Jul 9, 20252 min read
The Truth About Hot Girl Summer
Forget the glam—this is the real Hot Girl Summer. From sweaty car seats and snack bag meltdowns to soft parenting boundaries, here’s a hilarious and honest take on summer motherhood—plus tips for carving out “you” time without the guilt.
Jul 9, 20256 min read
Red, White, and Mood Swings
Summer motherhood isn’t all sunshine and sparkles. From meltdowns to magical moments, this honest post dives into the emotional rollercoaster of raising kids during the hottest, most chaotic months of the year.
Jun 30, 20253 min read
Our Unfiltered Family Nights
Discover the beauty in messy, imperfect, and heartwarming family nights. From s’mores and screen time struggles to epic game night drama and cozy movie moments, this honest peek into summer evenings reminds us that love lives in the chaos.
Jun 18, 20254 min read
"Mooooooooom, I'm Bored"
This summer, I’m not playing cruise director. I’m embracing the beauty of boredom—and watching my kids turn sticks into magic wands and the backyard into outer space. 🌿🚀
Why? Because creativity needs quiet. Imagination thrives when there’s nothing scheduled. And let’s be honest… mama needs a break too. ✌️💁♀️
Jun 9, 20254 min read
Finley's Special Heart Team
Finley, my special heart warrior.
To read more about Finley and his special heart story, "It's Okay Mommy, I Be Brave!"
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